Happy New Yearrrrrrrr💥💥💥
I don’t know if that is the best title for this post though but we move.. Lol
Really guys, How much are we holding on to life and things in it because we believe it will bring us happiness and make us feel more valuable?
How much do we stress ourselves and worry about getting our lives together- big car, big house, perfect spouse, dripping bank account and living a happily ever after as if it does “exist”.
Perhaps it does…
We set our New year resolutions thinking it holds the key to a better version of us. Well maybe it does…
How much more would we continue guilt-tripping ourselves and feeling like a loser when things don’t go our way and we disappoint ourselves once again?
Like we can ever meet up to our standards…
Well, this is me today saying- Chill, Relax and Breathe.
Life isn’t that complicated (can sometimes be though) and Happiness is elusive and quite transient (when finally gotten if you make it the object of your pursuit)
But of course, Life comes with his own struggles and dilemma and Yes, nobody has it better than you. You’ll always think they do but reality is You are your competition and your struggles are peculiar to you, this is because no one has had the same experiences, exposure, background and opportunities or made same mistakes, borne the same pains, felt the heart aches or equivalently had the same wins as you.
Therefore guys, lets stop fixating on what we lack, what we are not, what we have failed at, giving ourselves unnecessary anxiety pangs.
This may sound counter-intuitive but we actually need to stop chasing Happiness and accept our struggles. Struggles and challenges are a constant in life and in facing them heads on, we actually find true happiness.
So next time you hit that tough time which you will as the year unrolls, Remember to Chill, Relax and Breathe
Because in doing that, You put yourself in the right mental space tone for facing tough time heads on and eventually, finding happiness
Happy new year once again guys!
Wishing you a productive and blessed year ahead
I love you all so much
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