The first mistake guys make is leading the relationship on with money, this simply means working into a relationship with a bag of money on your head, which technically means this is all I have to offer to you, this connotes please take my money and give me your love, it is ideal for a guy to take care of his partner, but what most guys don’t understand is the order with which you present this money, it can be the first thing you present a woman, making promises just to gain her attention because most women will accept the gift, it is a good gesture and nobody wants to reject that, women generally like guys for two things, the physical attraction and the provision, if a woman is not attracted to a guy there is a strong possibility that she can lead you on knowing fully well there is something to benefit from you which is the money and trust me you cannot even blame her because you made her realize your self-worth is attached to money, the order of presenting your feelings is always the big issue here, there has to be a level of attraction from, you need to know she genuinely likes you, when the attraction is not there, it can lead to many things, she can end up cheating on the guy, unhealthy relationship.
Once there is no attraction, she will definitely get the money from you and get her needs from outside.
The second mistakes guys make is thinking the friend zone leads to relationship, this is the most popular mistakes guys make, being friend with a girl and being friend zoned is literarily different from each other, being friend with a girl is getting to know a girl with no hard feeelings, but being friend zoned is trying to be a friend knowing fully well she doesn’t like you back with the hope of one day she might like you, very disheartening.
Ignoring female nature is another mistake guys make, women always know what a guy find attractive in them but not all guys know what a lady find attractive in them, more reasons why ladies do plastic surgery, you need to understand the psychology of women.
I must at this point say, leading your partner on in a relationship without intentions of dating is quite dangerous and it tends to affect or distrupt the mental health of people in general, I once dated a lady because I need to break my attraction for another lady who I was obsessed with, I knew the danger of telling the lady I wasn’t attracted to you in the first place so I kept faking, but it ended up catching up with me, because it affected my disposition towards to her, I could not make love to her because I wasn’t attracted and I picked up fight at every possible moves from
Guys, we need to understand the intricacies of relationship, let the foundation be solid, ensuring the feelings is mutual, to avoid complications and ending up hurting ones partne